What is the hardest thing to say?
Some would say it is ‘Thank You’. Other would say it is “I Love You’. Or “Would You Marry Me?”
The five letter word is that easy peasy to come off of our mouth, but to really mean it? I don’t think so. Another thing is, the depth of this word means much. You just could feel wether someone really mean it or not, and the needs of this, at least for me, is critical.
I am, for sure, not the modest person in this world. Saying sorry is one of the hardest thing I learn in my life. We need a huge amount of braveness to admit sometimes, we do thing wrong. A sorry without confession? Won’t fell so sincere.
I get it, to admit mistakes itself is a hard thing to do. Especially when you feel you are good enough, you are old enough, you work hard enough to get to where you are now.
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When you reach a certain level of relationship, whether it is work relation, romantic relation, or family related.
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When we’re getting older, getting better at our achievement (whether at work, at relationship, or everywhere else), a sincere ‘sorry’ will getting harder and harder to say. But for me, it is one of the key to build the real relationship between two person.
Pride is one thing. Pride is good. Pride motivate you. But I think, admitting mistakes and saying a sincere sorry is another brave and great modest thing to do, especially when we are building a ‘real’ relationship.
*I am triggered to write this by one of my friend question. She is getting married soon, and ask for an advice. I think a sincere 'sorry', a courage to admit mistake, will be really good for the marriage. Or also for everyday life of everyone.
*I am triggered to write this by one of my friend question. She is getting married soon, and ask for an advice. I think a sincere 'sorry', a courage to admit mistake, will be really good for the marriage. Or also for everyday life of everyone.
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